Saturday, 21 March 2015

The Search has begun...

‘Books are man’s best friends!’

Heard this quote so many times. So off late I have started referring to my friends :0 for advise and guidance to help me in my journey to find the real me; to help me calm my mind and to attain greatness!

Recently I have read a book titled ‘Discover Your Destiny With Monk Who Sold His Ferrari’ by Robin Sharma.


There are 7 stages of Self – Awakening in man’s life which are as under:

Stage 1:            Living a Lie (The stage of self betrayal)
Stage 2:            The Choicepoint (The Stage of Releasing Control and Breaking your chains)
Stage 3:            Awareness of Wonder and Possibility (The stage of seeing with new eyes)
Stage 4:            Instruction from Masters (The stage of learning, failing and preparation)
Stage 5:            Transformation and Rebirth (The stage of emptying and refilling)
Stage 6:            The Trial (The stage of Testing and Confirmation)
Stage 7:            The Great Awakening of Self (The stage of fearlessness)       

There are four dimensions of one's authentic self that need to be awakened to become whole once again. The 4 Awakenings are as under:

Awakening of 1:  Mind
Awakening of 2:  Body
Awakening of 3:  Emotions
Awakening of 4:  Spirit

There is a 'golden buddha' inside everyone and the purpose of life is to remove the layers so more of gold within us can shine and see the light of a day.
A man should make the following 5 daily devotions which are as under:

Devotion 1:     Rise each and every morning at 5 A.M. Those who get up early are those who get the                           best from life.
Devotion 2:    Set aside the first sixty minutes of your day as your ‘holy hour’. This is your sacred  time to do the inner work (prayer, meditation, journaling, reading from the wisdom  literature, reflecting on the state of your life) that will help you live your highest life.
Devotion 3:     Display a standard of care, compassion and character well beyond what anyone could                          ever imagine from you. In doing so, you will be doing your part to aid in the building                           of a new world.
Devotion 4:     Display a standard of excellence at work far higher than anyone would ever expect                               from you. Abundance and fulfilment will flow back to you.
Devotion 5:    Devote yourself to being the most loving person you know and thinking, feeling and acting as though you are one of the greatest people currently on the planet (because you are). Your life will never be the same and you will bless many lives.

A man need to awaken all the 4 dimensions to find his true self. I feel that completing 7 stages is a long journey but not an impossible one. Having said, I strongly believe that doing 5 daily devotions everyday will help to move forward in ones life…


Thursday, 12 March 2015

Answer lies within!

Life is Strange!

Sometimes what I think of, I get it instantly. Sometimes I dream of, the results are there in front of me quickly the very next morning.

For example very recently, I just thought of a childhood friend and to my surprise when I got up in the evening I received her FB Friend Request. Sometimes I think about my family members and very moment I receive a telephone call from them. Sometimes I don’t find stuffs and I pray and the said thing appears in front of me?

Is it just a coincidence or there is some other force at play?

Having read a very few good books and with so many coincidences, I believe that there is indeed a special force. Some call it God,  some call it universe and some the nature.

The moment when I start believing that there is some other force at play, I question why it does not work at each and every moment? Why it does not work when I need that force to work for me desperately? Why the force does not work instantly? What is missing when I just thought of a childhood friend and when I desperately want something? Does that force work according to me or does that force has its own plan? Does that force chose what’s good and what’s bad for me? Why such force takes so much time for one wish and gives a result instantly on the other hand or does not give result at all?

Today I have no answer to my queries but I know that the answer to the same lies within me. Yes within me and I believe it now.

I am unable to delve inside me. I don’t have a proper guidance.  I don’t have a coach or a teacher today.

But before that I need to ask myself, whether I am prepared for that? Whether I am committed to my cause? Whether I am disciplined?

I am still a confused soul and would like to start my journey inside!